Conversation with Devin sent me off in another direction.
If someone is really creepy, just not a nice person is it possible that their true love, their soulmate, their perfect match is a nice person?
You know, now it looks like I’m talking about Devin! Sorry! I’m not! Shoot, now I have to explain.
So I know this person who is a pretty nice person. Good guy. And he has a girlfriend who he believes is it, the person who he is meant to spend the rest of his life with. And she has some pretty nasty personality traits. Not things that have happened in the past, but current things. But she also believes that he is it and they both believe they are meant to be together. And we’re not talking about 16 year olds here.
So does the fact that she’s nasty and he’s not mean they shouldn’t be together? Or does that mean that he must actually be kind of nasty deep down? So going back to my second sentance, wouldn’t that just be the definition of cosmic irony?